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It was obvious by his face that he was scared and I wanted to share, understand, and validate his feeling. But after Soneone asked if he were a little bit scared and before he had a chance to answer the other social worker interupted us and in a scolding tone of voice told him there was nothing to be afraid of! I felt very sad for the boy but I wasn't sure how to handle the situation.
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