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Thankfully I'm getting in to talk with a professional next week to begin helping me deal with the emotions. I'm not an abusive person by nature, never have been, which is why it's so shocking to realize just how out of control my anger became. Despite knowing it's a mental condition for her, it seems impossible for me to grasp how the Wife seeking sex Adah mind works when unmanaged.
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